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Collaborative Contested Estates

Resolve a Will dispute or family provision claim without going to court.

When someone feels left out of a Will, or the family cannot agree on an estate, court can feel like the only option. It isn’t. Collaborative law lets everyone negotiate privately, with their own trained lawyer, and keeps the estate’s money for the family rather than legal fees.

Reviewed by Jacinta Watkins, Wills and Estates Partner, collaboratively trained lawyer and AACP member. Last updated November 2026.

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Penrith Office

Ground Floor, Suite 4 291/295 High St, Penrith NSW 2750

Mon-Fri, 9am-5pm

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Client meeting with ALA Law about a family provision claim

Disputes we can help resolve collaboratively

  • Family provision claims, where someone believes they were not adequately provided for
  • Will challenges, such as questions about capacity, undue influence or an informal Will
  • Executor disputes, including disagreements between co-executors or concerns about how an estate is being run
  • Disputes over specific assets, such as the family home, a farm or a business

We can act for a person making a claim, or for an executor or beneficiary responding to one.

Don't miss the time limit

In NSW, a family provision claim must generally be made within 12 months of the date of death. The court allows a late claim only in limited circumstances. Starting a collaborative process does not stop the clock, so speak to us early. We will make sure your rights are protected while you negotiate.

Why resolve an estate dispute collaboratively?

Protect the estate

Legal costs in estate disputes are often paid out of the estate. The less spent on lawyers, the more is left for the family.

Keep it private

Family history and finances stay out of a public courtroom.

Preserve relationships

Siblings, step-parents and grandchildren can stay connected after it is over.

Find creative solutions

You can agree on outcomes a court may not order, such as who keeps a treasured item or how a property is shared.

Reach a resolution sooner

Meetings are scheduled around you, not a court timetable.

How it works

01
Step one
First conversation

We assess your position, your options and any time limits.

02
Step two
Participation agreement

Each person engages a collaboratively trained lawyer, and everyone signs an agreement to resolve the dispute without court.

03
Step three
Information shared openly

Details of the estate and each person's circumstances are exchanged in full.

04
Step four
Round-table meetings

Everyone works towards an agreement, with neutral valuers or financial experts if needed.

05
Step five
Settlement made binding

We record the agreement in a deed of settlement and obtain court orders where needed.

Meet your collaborative estates lawyer

Jacinta Watkins, Wills and Estates Partner. Jacinta is a collaboratively trained lawyer and an AACP member. She helps families resolve estate disputes with dignity, respect and a focus on practical outcomes.

Jacinta Watkins

Partner
Estate Planning and Deceased Estate
Collaborative Professional

WillsProbateDeceased estatesContested wills

Jacinta leads our wills and estates work, from estate planning and powers of attorney to probate and deceased estates.

Frequently asked questions

Can I contest a Will without going to court?

Often, yes. Many estate disputes can be settled by agreement. Collaborative law gives everyone a structured way to get there.

What if the executor won't agree to a collaborative process?

We can still try other options, such as negotiation or mediation, and court proceedings remain available if needed.

Who pays the legal costs?

It depends on the dispute and what is agreed. We’ll explain the likely costs and who may bear them at the start.

What if we don't reach agreement?

The collaborative lawyers withdraw and you can take the matter to court with new lawyers. Anything learned in the process still helps you understand the issues.

Facing an estate dispute?

Book a confidential conversation with Jacinta to understand your options and your time limits.

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